Letter of the Day | Break the silence on domestic violence

THE EDITOR, Madam:

Every person deserves to feel safe at home. Yet, for survivors of domestic violence, home can be a place of fear and intimidation. Jamaica must strengthen advocacy, community education, and access to safe accommodation for survivors, whether they arrive alone or with children.

Domestic violence is everyone’s concern. Families, churches, schools, businesses, and public institutions must challenge abuse and support those affected. Our response must extend beyond outrage after a tragedy.

Threats, humiliation, financial control, isolation, and physical or sexual violence should never be dismissed as ordinary relationship problems.

Statements such as “That is their private business” or “Why don’t they leave?” ignore barriers including fear, financial dependence, concern for children, and nowhere safe to go.

Communities must replace judgment with compassion: “I believe you. You do not deserve this. How can I support you safely?”

Speaking out should never mean pressuring survivors to share their experiences publicly. Their privacy and choices must be respected.

Jamaica needs regular educational forums in schools, churches, workplaces, and community centers, including rural communities. These discussions should explain warning signs, available support, and ways to help without increasing danger. Men and boys must participate in conversations about respect, consent, healthy relationships, and accountability. Advocacy must also secure sustained funding, coordinated services, and respectful treatment. Survivors should help shape programmes voluntarily and safely.

The existing shelter programme provides a foundation, but advocacy must press for sufficient, accessible accommodation. No survivor should have to choose between abuse and homelessness. Marital status or having children should never determine access to safety.

Shelters need confidential locations, trained staff, food, counselling, and connections to healthcare and legal assistance. Parents need childcare support, while children deserve emotional care and continuity in education. Services must accommodate disabilities and families with older children.

Emergency shelter should connect survivors with stable housing, employment opportunities, and financial independence.

Government, businesses, faith leaders, community organizations, and citizens must turn concern into sustained action. We need more voices challenging abuse, more educational forums, and practical support for survivors rebuilding their lives. Silence should never be the price of belonging to a family or community. Every survivor deserves safety, dignity, and the opportunity to move forward.

CORDESIA RANKINE

Case advocate for domestic violence